Imibanire Ubuzima

Ibizakwereka ko ari umukuzi w’ibyinyo

Iri ni izina ry’akabyiniriro rihabwa abagukunda bitari urukundo ahubwo agukurikiyeho ibyo utunze. Mu cyongereza bakunze kwitwa gold-diggers. Nubwo benshi bazi yuko abakobwa ari bo bakura ibyinyo gusa nyamara burya n’abasore/abagabo nabo bashobora kubikora ndetse akenshi bo binagera aho kubana atari urukundo ahubwo agukurikiyeho ibyo utunze.

Nkuko hano ku Ubujyanama duhora dutanga inama rero reka tuvuge bimwe mu bizakwereka ko uwo uziko ari inshuti ahubwo burya ari umukuzi w’ibyinyo, ufate ingamba hakiri kare.

1.Mutaramarana kabiri ahita agusaba kugira ikintu runaka umugurira

 

Kuri ubu usanga benshi bamenyanira ku mbuga nkoranyambaga. Umukuzi w’ibyinyo rero ntiyihishira niyo mwaba mutaragira ubushuti burambye ahita aguha impamvu zituma hari icyo umugurira (terefoni yapfuye, umwana yarwaye, bagiye kunsohora mu nzu…) gusa iki sicyo kimenyetso simusiga kuko ashobora no kukwitabaza koko kuko akubonano inshuti kandi wamufasha, niyo mpamvu hari ibindi bimenyetso.

2.Yambara ibihenze akarira ahahenze ugereranyije n’ubushobozi bwe

Ahari wenda muri iyi si ya demokarasi wavuga ko ari ukwinjirira umuntu ariko nanone niba uwo mukundana nta kazi kazwi cyangwa gafatika afite ariko ugasanga imyambarire ye, aho asohokera hari ku rwego rwo hejuru, uzatinye kuko ashobora kuba afite abaterankunga nawe ukaba ugiye kwiyongeraho (aha ndizera ko uri kubisobanukirwa)

3.Ntajya agura niyo aguriwe ashima gacye

Niba musohokanye bwa mbere nibyo uri bugure birumvikana, kandi mu gutandukana umukobwa warezwe azagushimira kubera umwanya wamuhaye cyangwa kubera wamusohokanye. Nyamara uyu we bizaba kabiri gatatu kane, ubone abifata nk’ibisanzwe mbese akwereka ko ibyo ukora ari inshingano zawe, nyine kumubona bisaba kumugurira no kumusohokana bityo kuri we nta mpamvu yo kugushimira. Ni gacye azanakubwira ko yageze mu rugo utabanje kubimubaza.

4.Ntiyita ku kinyuranyo cy’imyaka

Nushaka ube ufite abana bangana na we, nushaka ube warakutse amenyo we ataramera muzitsa, icyo we areba si uko ungana ahubwo areba ibyo utunze.

5.Iyo musohokanye agusaba kujya ahahenze gusa

Erega nibyo kuko we ayabona atayavunikiye niyo mpamvu kumujyana ahahendutse kuri we yita ndagaswi atabyumva atanabyemera, niba atari hoteli byibuze ashaka kabe akabari kihagazeho hamwe usanga igiciro gisanzwe cyikuba byibuze kabiri. Uyu rero uzamusohokane wiyemeje ko ikofi ibyimbye. Yego ntawe udakunda aheza n’ibyiza ariko uzamugerageze umubwire ahantu we yita ndagaswi (nkuko bakunze kwita ahaciriritse) urebe uko akureba

6.Usanga yarakundanye n’abantu bafite amazina azwi

Mu bo bakundanye mbere yawe uzasangamo abakinnyi b’umupira, abahanzi, abakinnyi ba filme, mbese abantu bazwi cyane. Ntibivuze ko gukundana na bo ubwabyo ari ikibazo, ariko niba ari bo gusa bakundanye na we bagatandukana harimo ikibazo. Ese kuki ari bo yibanzeho cyane, ese kuki batandukanye? Umutimanama wawe uguhe igisubizo. Gusa muri macye, akunda iraha, ubuzima bworoshye

7.Ahora ku mbuga nkoranyambaga

Uzasanga ameze nk’ufite imigabane ku mbuga nkoranyambaga. Byibuze uzamusanga kuri Facebook, Instagram, Snapchat, Badoo, Tinder, Tango, Whatsapp yo ni iya twese. Kumubona kuri Twitter birakajya, LinkedIn ntiwamubonaho, kuko ibyo ashaka ntibiriyo niba binariyo ntabibona neza uko abishaka. Kuri we ashaka ajye aho bose bamubona, ufite menshi amwegukane

8.Ashaka amakuru yuzuye y’ayo winjiza

Kugirango amenye niba koko uhuje n’ibyifuzo bye akubaza muimenyana akazi ukora akanakubaza uko uhembwa cyangwa se niba wikorera ayo winjiza mu kwezi. Azakubaza ayo wishyura aho uba, mbese ameze nk’uri mu ibarura ry’ayo usagura ku kwezi. Aha rero kubimubwira ni ukuba umeze nk’umweguriye konti yawe kuko nagusaba nka 20000 ukamubwira ko ntayo azakubaza aho wayashyize da.

9.Muryamanye, ntazigora gusaba kwambara agakingirizo

Niba atarashyirishijemo agapira cyangwa akaba atiteza urushinge rwo kuboneza urubyaro, kuri we kunywa ibinini bibuza gusama by’ako kanya (emergency pills) ntacyo bimutwaye, kandi niyo wamutera inda yayikuramo uretse ko niyo yayibyara yaba abonye indi mpamvu yo gukomeza kukunyunyuza imitsi kuko buri kwezi wajya umugenera ibitunga umwana. Imibare ye yose ayikora ayitondeye

10. Ntimwaryamana ntacyo umuhaye cyangwa uri bumuhe

Nubwo akubeshya ko ari inshuti ariko kuba mwakorana imibonano bisaba ubanze ugire icyo utanga. Yewe niyo yaba atuye mu ntambwe 18 azagusaba aya moto cyangwa taxi voiture. Kandi ikizakubwira ko ari umunyamibare numubwira gutega ukishyura ahageze azabyemera agoranye, ibyiza kuri we wayamwoherereza akitegera. (wanasanga aho uzi ko atuye atari ho, akaza gusagura). najya gutaha azakubaza niba nta gacupa anywa ageze mu rugo cyangwa ati burya amavuta yanshiranye, imisatsi yashaje, …

Dusoze twibutsa ko ibi atari byo gusa wagenderaho, kuko nawe ufite ibindi wakongeraho. Kandi buri ngingo ukwayo ntiwayitaho yonyine kuko imwe ukwayo irasanzwe ariko numubonaho ibirenze bitatu ku bivuzwe hano, uzagire amakenga

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