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FIRDAUS: Agace ka 31

Ubutumwa bwa Maurice narabusomye amarira aragwa, kuko numvaga nyobewe icyo gukora. Yari yanditse ati
Firdaus nkunda, iyi minsi simpari, kandi ntumbaze aho ngiye, ntuzanampamagare kuko ntabwo terefoni izaba iriho. Tuzavugana ngarutse
Nabusomye mfite ikiniga n’agahinda, nibaza niba atari uburyo bwo kunyicaho mu ibanga, cyangwa se akaba ashaka gusubirana na Keila
Bagenzi banjye babonye ko ntameze neza, bambaza icyo mbaye nanjye sinabahisha.
Ines: None se umuntu niho mugikundana, none ngo aho agiye ntashaka kuhakubwira, ngo nta no kumuhamagara koko? Ese wamuhamagaye biranga cyangwa ntiwabigerageje
Firdaus: None se wowe wabona buriya butumwa ukirirwa uhamagara koko?
Keila: Ariko ndumva udakwiye guhangayika. Burya abagabo bagira ibintu byo gushaka gutungura abakunzi babo, wasanga atari ubundi bugome cyangwa urwango ahubwo ashaka kuzakubwira ibyo agiye guhugiraho ari uko byamaze gutungana. Rero ndumva udakwiye guhangayika rwose.
Firdaus: Uzi ko nimero ye nyihamagaye ikaba iri gucamo we? Ariko ntari kwitaba sha
Ines: wihangayika ariko nawe. Buriya azagusobanurira impamvu yabyo
Twarasezeye kwa muganga nuko duherekeza Keila tumugeza iwabo, nanjye nsubira iwanjye dore ko nari nanahakumbuye.
Ubwo nageragayo nasanze ibintu bikiri uko nabisize, mbanza guhugira mu masuku, nuko ubwo nakoraga isuku naguye ku kinyamakuru, mbanza kwicara ndasoma dore ko gusoma ari kimwe mu bindanga.
Cyari ikinyamakuru kivuga ku rukundo, nuko nsomamo ibitandukanya urukundo n’amarangamutima.
Dore bimwe mu byo nasomyemo
1. Amarangamutima
Twese bitubaho kubona umuntu ukumva muri wowe uramukunze. Uko kumva umukunze ako kanya mu by’ukuri ntabwo byo ari rwo rukundo ahubwo ni amarangamutima. Uzasanga kugirango uwo muntu wumve muri wowe umukunze hari ikintu runaka kuri we kizaba cyagukuruye. Ushobora kuba wagiye mu kiliziya nuko umwe mu baririmbyi ukanezezwa n’uburyo ari kuririmba, ijwi rye se cyangwa ibimenyetso akoresha.
Ushobora kujya mu kabari nuko uwakwakiriye uburyo yakwitwayeho, yakwakiriye se, byahuza n’uko wifuza ukumva umugiriye amarangamutima.
Umukozi mukorana ashobora kuza yambaye uko adasanzwe yambara cyangwa akakwitwaraho uko atari asanzwe akwitwaraho nuko bikamugukururiraho.
Izi ni zimwe mu ngero zerekana amarangamutima dushobora rimwe na rimwe kwita urukundo.
Muri macye amarangamutima aza ako kanya kandi agira ikintu runaka cyaba gito cyangwa kinini kiyabyutsa.
Gusa amarangamutima burya niyo abyara urukundo
2. Urukundo
Ya marangamutima rero ntabwo tuyagaragaza mu buryo bumwe. Hari uyagira akayapfukirana cyane cyane iyo uwo yayagiriye abona ntaho bahurira. Hari n’uyagira akayagaragariza uwo yayagiriye. Uyu rero wagiriwe amarangamutima niwe ushobora gutuma abyara urukundo cyangwa se akagumya kuba amarangamutima gusa.
Akenshi amarangamutima agendana n’ibyo wowe wifuza kandi ukunda. Uwo wayagiriye iyo mufite ibyo muhuza bituma iminsi ya mbere itabagora dore ko muba musangiye byinshi. Iyi minsi ya mbere y’urukundo niyo iryoha ku bantu bose kuko muba muhararanye. Gusohokana, guhana impano, guhamagarana kenshi, n’ibindi binyuranye byo kubagarira urukundo nibyo byiharira amasaha yanyu menshi.
Aha muba mwumva nta cyabatanya ndetse urukundo rwanyu nta kizarurangiza.
Nyamara benshi kubera kutamenya urukundo icyo ari cyo birangira icyari urukundo gihindutsemo kwicuza no kubabara.
Kubera iki?
KUKO URUKUNDO ATARI AMARANGAMUTIMA GUSA.
Uwo ukunda umuhitamo mu gihe amarangamutima adahitamo. Nubwo bavuga ngo urukundo rujya aho rushatse, burya ni amarangamutima ajya aho ashatse noneho wowe ugahitamo kuyarekerayo cyangwa kuyakurayo. Urukundo rwo rusaba kwitanga n’umwanya no kwibaza icyo wakora ngo ntirurangire.
Akazi gakomeye mu rukundo gatangira iyo wiyemeje gukunda uwo muntu. Gufuha biraza, kubura amahoro kuko utazi aho ari n’amakuru ye bikiyongera, kwifuza ko yakuba hafi bikaza.
Ikosa benshi bakora ni ugushaka ko uwo ukunda aba uko ushaka, aba nkawe. Ntibishoboka. Urukundo rureba ibyiza by’uwo ukunda gusa niyo cyaba ari kimwe, nicyo witaho kuruta kureba amakosa ye, niyo yaba igihumbi. Ibuka ko wamukunze kuko ubihisemo, si uko wabitegetswe. Nubwo yaba ariwe wagusabye ko mukundana nta gahato washyizweho. Muri benshi babyifuzaga niwe gusa wemeye ko muba mu rukundo. Kwakira uwo ukunda uko ari niryo shingiro nyaryo ry’urukundo. Uko agukunda nibyo bizatuma we ubwe, ayibwirije agerageza kwisanisha n’uko uri cyangwa ushaka naho wowe ntacyo wakora ngo umuhindure. Kumubwira ibyo udakunda birahagije, ahasigaye we azifatira umwanzuro w’uko abyitwaramo.
Niba mu mibanire yanyu hari ikitagenda neza, aho kureba icyo mugenzi wawe atagukorera ahubwo reba wowe icyo ukwiye kumukorera. Dusabwa kutabera ikigeragezo abadukunda ahubwo tukababera inkingi.
URUKUNDO NYARUKUNDO NTIRUSHIRA NO MU BIHE BIBI RURAKOMEZA
Ese ubundi kuki ari we nkunda? Iki kibazo jya ucyibaza igihe cyose habaye kutumvikana ku kintu runaka hagati yanyu, bizagufasha kubisohokamo neza. Kuba ari we ukunda na we akaba ari wowe akunda, ni uko mwabihisemo, mwabyiyemeje. Ntibikwiye gusozwa n’intonganya no kubwirana amagambo akomeretsa no gushyira hanze ibyari amabanga y’urukundo rwanyu. Iyo bibaye byerekana ko mwakomeje kuzamura amarangamutima ntimuzamure urukundo.
GUKURURWA N’IKIMERO, IMYITWARIRE MU BURIRI, NI ZIMWE MU NGERO ZO GUSHYIRA IMBERE AMARANGAMUTIMA KURENZA URUKUNDO KANDI AKENSHI BIRANGIRA NABI.
Urukundo ni amahitamo. Duhitamo kureba ibyiza gusa, tukirengagiza ibibi, tugashaka ibyo tugomba kandi dukwiye gukorera uwo dukunda kandi tukibuka ko uwo twahisemo, tumukunda. Ibyo kubishyira imbere ni rwo rukundo kandi guharanira ko bikomeza gutyo niko kuguma mu rukundo.
Nasomye aya magambo numva ikiniga kiramfashe, nyoberwa aho amarira aturutse, nuko nkomeza kwihangana nkora amasuku ariko rwose nari nashengabaye. Koko nahise mbona ko namaze gukunda Maurice bitakiri amarangamutima. Nahereye ku bimaze akanya bibaye, kubera ubutumwa gusa nahise mbura amahoro, gucyeka ko ashobora gusubirana na Keila nabyo ubwabyo nta mahoro byampaye.
Urukundo burya rurayoboye kandi kuruhisha biragoye. Iyaba abantu bakundanaga ntirusaze ariko bijya bimbabaza kubona abakundanaga bari gusaba gatanya, ukibaza niba akaboko yamanitse asezerana yari yibeshye cyangwa yari yasinze cyangwa se ari uwo yiganaga.
Ibyo bitekerezo nabikomeje nkora amasuku kugeza ubwo nasozaga ibyo nakoraga, mpita njya mu gikoni gutegura ibyokurya dore ko bwari bugorobye. Gusa nakomeje guhangayika kuko ntari nzi aho Maurice wanjye aherereye ariko nanone niyumvisha ko nta kibi arimo, na cyane ko yamenyesheje nubwo atambwiye nyirizina aho agiye.
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TUGARUKE KURI MAURICE
Maurice: Bite mwana?
…: Ni byiza
Maurice: Jyewe nitwa Maurice, nturutse muri Kenya. Wowe se witwa nde?
…: Jyewe nitwa Samson, iwacu ni inaha
Maurice: None se Samson ko nshaka kukuyoboza
Samson: nta kibazo wanyoboza
Maurice (amwereka ifoto): Uyu mukobwa waba umuzi?
Samson: Eeeeh. Uyu si Kiragi ra? Ndamuzi ahubwo yarapfuye
Maurice: Urabizi neza se ko yapfuye?
Samson: Niko numvise iwabo bavuga, none se ko amaze umwaka urenga baramubuze ubwo koko ntiyapfuye?
Maurice: Iwabo se urahazi neza?
Samson: yego ndahazi ni hafi hano rwose
Maurice: None se wanjyanyeyo ukahanyereka
Samson: Dufate moto. Urampereza agacupa ariko mwana dore umvanye ku gasima
Maurice: Humura rwose nta kibazo
Bahise burira moto berekeza iwabo wa Firdaus
Maurice se aje gushaka ayahe makuru? Ese bari bumwakire neza cyangwa baramwishisha?

Biracyaza…..

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